I need to seek female (or affectionately know as 'middens' or 'mimms' on these shores) advice. My question is: have I just been used?
I met an old flame over new years in Edinburgh. We rekindled our burning love for one another to such a degree that she asked me to change my train ticket and stay another 2 days. During this time we walked the cobbled streets of Edinburgh hand-in-hand, her often placing her arms around me, kissing me in public and letting me do pretty much anything I wanted to her upon the returns to the private sanctum of 39 Watson crescent.
By our final day (I'd now been in her place 4 days - no joke, i'd not even stayed at my mates house where i planned to!) we discussed future plans. Her saying she would visit me this very weekend. I returned home to tyneside and promptly send flowers northwards, laced with a card extolling how great my weekend had been and how excited I was to see her this weekend.
....Nothing....not a bloody thing.
I texted her the next day asking if the aforementioned flowers had been received?
....Nothing....not a squeak (and by this point I knew how to make her squeak, believe me)
I texted again today asking "will you be visiting this weekend? as planned?"
....for a long time, nothing. Then "Andy - no i won't be visiting this weekend or any other"
Woe is me! Have I just been suckered? Have I just been used and abused? Have I not just had the wool pulled over my eyes but wrapped down past my balls??
This may sound really naive - hence why i need to seek midden-based opinions - but can a mimm lie, play act the smitten midden and play hide the british pork sausage just as effectively, nay - more so, then a devious gentleman? Can and do chicks play you up as much as I just think I have been? all just to get laid?
Yours, confused (but satiated) of North Tyneside